
Hi, I'm Coach Annie

I am Anne De Santis I am a Post Masters Counselor, Certified Life, and Recovery Coach, and a Certified Interventionist. My degrees, training, and certifications span over 30 years of lived and learned professional and personal experience.
Check out my profiles on Psychology Today and LinkedIn for verification of my credentials.
I began this work of supporting others through my own personal recovery from substance use since 1991. My involvement from receiving peer support and guidance had led me to not only deliver that support, earn the proper degrees, certifications and credentials to guide me in a more professional and ethical manner.
Growing up as a child of an alcoholic and other dysfunctional behaviors, that left me with the inability to cope and deal with my own emotions and led me deep into my own addiction to drugs and alcohol. My addiction to substances escalated at the age of 13 and spanned 10 years until I found 12-step recovery. And obtained total abstinence of all mind and mood altering substances. This modality of recovery also introduced me to therapy, and sense of community and other support groups.
My recovery journey included many, many dark nights of the soul, many mistakes, but more importantly new levels of healing and freedom through implementing the new coping skills I was taught in how to navigate the situations at hand.
I have learned with every breakdown, when I did the work, I had significant breakthroughs. My many breakthroughs blessed me with a clear gift of intuition, that I use with my clients for a more effective healing process. It is through that gift that I can speak directly to the pain or confusion my client is experiencing and I then can shine a light on it, so they can gain a new perspective and come out of that darkness and hurt darkness.
I use this psycho-spiritual approach to guide those I mentor through their dark night of the soul. empowering them to utilize their strengths to move through their breakdowns toward their breakthroughs.
I know what it's like to live the pain from the inside out and how to persevere to get to the other side. I have learned how to speak into the darkness of others from what I learned through mine.
I can recognize the signs and symptoms of unresolved grief, pain, and addiction. This enables me to hear my clients with compassion, empathy, a non-judgmental ear, and a proper understanding of their pain old and new and what is coming for them in the now.
Most importantly, I speak the language of truth-seeking, and healing and recovery.
I won't do the work for you, but I will walk alongside you and shine the light on the path toward truth self freedom and authenticity.
Anne De Santis
M.A., CLC, NCIP, CPRS
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Master's of Art in Counseling, Montclair State University
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Certified Life Coach, Certified Life Coach Institute
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National Certified Intervention Professional- The Addictions Academy
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Certified Peer Recovery Specialist- Connecticut Community for Addiction Recovery CCAR
what my clients are saying?

Claire S., NJ
When I come away from a session with Anne I feel empowered to change the things that haven't worked for me in the past. She always gives me concrete ideas to think about and/or practice.

Mary B., NJ
Anne is empathetic, caring, and supportive, She cares about everyone's well being and taps into a person's resiliency and strengths. She is truly one of a kind.

Laura M., NJ
Anne and I totally click on a different level, emotionally and spiritually. She totally gets me and I feel completely safe being myself and vulnerable with her. I did not feel that way with any other counselor.

Kathleen D., FL
Annie has been a powerhouse in finding and embracing my true self.


“Ashley taught me how to do my eyebrows. She also reminded me how powerful words can be. These were her words to me, and now, I carry them forward.”
— In loving memory of Ashley
Areas of Expertise
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Find your true self
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Navigating life transitions
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Substance use or abuse recovery
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12 step integration
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Complex PTSD
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Inner child healing
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General anxiety coping skills
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Improving communication and boundaries
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Attaining emotional maturity
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Healing grief and loss
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Self forgiveness from abortion or miscarriages
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Spiritual healing and connection
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Understanding codependency
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FINDING YOUR INNER PEACE AND FREEDOM


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